Sunday, December 6, 2009

Dating a friend...?

So I've been friends with this girl for about 6 years now. We get along really well and have a lot in common. I would really like to take things to the next level and start dating. Should I do this or will it ruin or friendship even just bring the subject up?



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I would first look to see if there are any signs that she might be interested in you. Does she smile at you at alot? Does she get jealous when you go out with other girls or mention them? How often had she dated since you two met? There has to be some kind of signs to tell you whether or not she is interested in moving to the next level. There is a chance of ruining your friendship if it's just a casual flirt thing, but if you really think you could love her in a relationship and then go for it.



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ask her to movies one night cant hurt u.
dont do it
If you like her, ask her out. At least you get the truth about how you feel about her out in the open. If nothing happens, it will probably strengthen the relationship you already have. If you don't, you'll always be left wondering.
it could shatter ur friendship but it could also work. my best friend was a guy and we hooked up and have been dating for 8 months now :)
it depends on how you feel. if you wanna date her then ask her out it doesnt matter wat her answer is as long as you remain friends.
i think it depends on how far you go.. I had a friend i went all the way with and dated for a half of a year now we don't talk at all but i'm glad i did it and got it out of my system. Plus i would have wondered all my life what would have been.
Women don't date friends -- they never have and never will. She'll never date you. Period.
I donno.I've never have a female friend with no sex involved.



It just doesn't work for me.
How that she see's you? Like , you think she feels that same way as you. You should think in her I think you know her really well, and know's what she wants, are you that person. You should think about it really well thats what happend to my sister and now they dont even talk to each other.Look at the way she look at you, how she talk to you.

I am kinda semi-dating. I dont want to get into a relationship (cos of time wasters in the past), so

....this guy have decided to get to know each other first before going into a relationship. So its like, half friends, half-date.



We have met up 4 times but he shows a lack of etiquette and manners - like first time we eat together he suggests we spilt the bill, or he would just buy his own cinema ticket and not offer to get mine, or when we go for a drink he hangs back at the bar, so i ultimately go to the bar and get the drinks in, or when in a shop he seems to hang back, so i just take the lead and go to the cashier to pay ffor both our stuff etc



My question is, as we are semi-dating (with the possibility to go into proper dating), would should i think about his lack of etiquette and manners? At this stage, should i not take it seriously?



Also, he has a full time job and lives with his parents, so does not have to pay rent, food etc and i live independently (without parents) and am also a full time student.



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Ask him for an explanation



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Gosh he doesn't sound very gallant at all.



Personally i would feel embarassed letting a woman pay for anything on a date ( not very p.c i know)



For want of a better phrase, is he just tight?



If he responds like that i would consider him selfish at the best



Wouldnt that just be saying..." im not paying until i am getting something out of it" ?
Bloke sounds like a complete TOSSER



Dump it and find someone else



SERIOUSLY DUMP HIM



HE WANTS YOU TO BE HIS MOMMY

Dating Delema?

Ok here is the scoop. I was with a guy last year , we were dating and happy , and to be honest it was the most amazing relationship I have ever been involved with. Everything seemed almost perfect .humor , down time together, Sex life was Awsome,



He got a job transfer out of state. We did the long distance thing . and it didn't work out to well as he was working offshore for months at a time with zero communication avaliable.



Now months later , he calls me we have super long conversation on the phone . he is talking about me moving to his state to live with him , and he talked about marriage, and children, but the one thing he couldn't say is ( I love you)



I asked him , how come he would want to sleep next to a person every night that he wasn't in love with.



he told me about his past baggage , and I understadn where he is comming from . I do still really care for him and yes I guess i do love him , as well i feel that he does love me



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It is strange that he mentions marriage and family, but is not saying those three little (yet very important) words. Moving in itself is a big step already, especially to another state. Dating and living together are two totally different things. If I were you, I would be hesitant to move in with someone who is still hung up on his past relationships. It can create problems. Be sure you are are really sure about whoever you decide to move in with because not only is your heart at stake but also your wallet!



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tell him that you can't move in with him because you don't feel like he loves you. then he'll probably say it.
you do not need to put yourself into an emotionless relationship. you should tell him that you aren't willing to make that sort of life changing decision unless he is willing to make a commitment to your relationship.
If 'I love you' is something that's important to you then he can say it if he means it. You'd be giving up loads of stuff to move in with him. he can cut you some slack if he's really in it.
Actions speak louder than words. But it is good to know. I' bet he does love you, but you might want to wait until he says it to move in. Changing your life like that for something your not sure of isn't the best idea. We all have baggage and past relationships issues, he shouldn't be comparing you to the past. It's a hard thing to say, but I'm sure he'll say it. Good luck.

What is your opinion on dating etiquette?

I am newly single and am going on dates with a few different guys. On average I am going out three times a week with three different men, (not having sex, 1st base is as far as it goes). Is this what dating is suposed to be like, sometimes I feel like I am seeing too many guys. Is this normal dating etiquette, or am I over doing it?



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I think as long as you are going out in a friendly way, with no expectations set with any of these men, then you are doing just fine. Enjoy yourself and get to know new people.



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Ask your heart, look inward to your soul, are you comfortable with three different men.

I have been dating a man for 9 mo's. How can I tell if he really loves me? He says he does.?

We have been dating 9 mo's. He is 12 years younger than me. But everyone tells me I look young for my age. I am in my 50's and he is in his 40's. I am in love with him. He is very smart and is very logical. I believe we are on the same wave length. He still has a male teen at home and his ex-wife has his teen daughter. I am also wondering if his children will affect his relationship with me. He is the first man I have been in love with for 15 years. He is a newly divorced. During the 9 mo's we have been dating he has bought a used sports car. What's up with that? I believe he loves me. How can I really know. He always wants me to rub his chest or back--he says he loves the feeling of my fingers touching him, but he never touches me lovingly as I do him. If we are angry, I normally call to tell him I love him and he always tells me he loves me too. Only a few times has he called me first to apologize for the argument--and he tells me he loves me. He takes me out socially.



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so he bought a used sport scars. maybe now can afford and enjoy it guilt free ( something many cannot once they are married as a man's responsibility over rides any desires he may have.. ), as for his children affecting his relationship, if they are late teens I doubt it, usually they are well on there own with there own social life and circle of friends and unless he is very close to them they'll pretty much let him go about his way untethered. don't keep track of who apologized first, men hate this and you can bet for sure his ex wife did too, it's one of those annoying thing women tend to do once they are married and comfortable with being well inside the marriage, hence the term the honeymoon is over. It's funny so many marriage die or fade as the attraction that one held both fades, nothing wrong with being mature but some get downright stale and prim. It makes a man wonder what he really got himself into, so this time around you very well may see cautious steps on his behalf, of course since you say it's been 15 years for you, it also begs the question what held you back ?

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Your Experiences with dating sites! Is it worth it?

Just wanted to know if anyone has used Yahoo Personals or any dating website. What was your experience? good, bad, met the love of your life, met a good friend, had the worst date ever, or OMG a stalker?! =) There was someone i was interested in...well I "winked" at him but no response. then all of a sudden 6 months later he responded. Im in that mode right now just to give it a try. What ya'll think? is it worth the try? Thanks in advance!



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I have met some really cool people off a dating site, but I have alse met some very weird people, like perverts... So be very careful, don't give them ur address or anything like that. Its a lot easier, you don't have to worry about them judging you on the way you walk or talk or anything like that, just be yourself.



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Myspace is free
One of my friends who isnt good talkign to people or meetign people in general used eHarmony and he has been on a dat ewith a girl 3 times and now shes goign to be his date for one of our friends wedding.
I guess its worth the try. Just be very very guarded.
Well it's ok for hookups, but in my experience you rarely meet stable women, or those you'd like to be long term with.
I gave them a try but never really got into it because I didnt see any women that were serious on it so I just said F. it...



I figure one day i'll meet someone, you know?
true.com may be worth a look for you. In the US, they apparently screen for married folks and criminals.

Dating Delema?

Ok here is the scoop. I was with a guy last year , we were dating and happy , and to be honest it was the most amazing relationship I have ever been involved with. Everything seemed almost perfect .humor , down time together, Sex life was Awsome,



He got a job transfer out of state. We did the long distance thing . and it didn't work out to well as he was working offshore for months at a time with zero communication avaliable.



Now months later , he calls me we have super long conversation on the phone . he is talking about me moving to his state to live with him , and he talked about marriage, and children, but the one thing he couldn't say is ( I love you)



I asked him , how come he would want to sleep next to a person every night that he wasn't in love with.



he told me about his past baggage , and I understadn where he is comming from . I do still really care for him and yes I guess i do love him , as well i feel that he does love me



Dating Delema?adult myspace





It is strange that he mentions marriage and family, but is not saying those three little (yet very important) words. Moving in itself is a big step already, especially to another state. Dating and living together are two totally different things. If I were you, I would be hesitant to move in with someone who is still hung up on his past relationships. It can create problems. Be sure you are are really sure about whoever you decide to move in with because not only is your heart at stake but also your wallet!



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tell him that you can't move in with him because you don't feel like he loves you. then he'll probably say it.
you do not need to put yourself into an emotionless relationship. you should tell him that you aren't willing to make that sort of life changing decision unless he is willing to make a commitment to your relationship.
If 'I love you' is something that's important to you then he can say it if he means it. You'd be giving up loads of stuff to move in with him. he can cut you some slack if he's really in it.
Actions speak louder than words. But it is good to know. I' bet he does love you, but you might want to wait until he says it to move in. Changing your life like that for something your not sure of isn't the best idea. We all have baggage and past relationships issues, he shouldn't be comparing you to the past. It's a hard thing to say, but I'm sure he'll say it. Good luck.

 
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