Dating advice for women....men - dos' and don'ts?

looking for advice on dating men.....what is the best way for a single female to approach guys when out in the club etc to get the ball rolling? is it better to just sit and drink something and wait for a guy to approach you?....anyone have good, sound advice for shy female her 20's....

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The easiest way is join an club or organization centered around an activity that you enjoy.

a) Some bars sponsor beach sand volley ball leagues in their parking lot. Then you have to meet dozens of guys every week.

b) Get involved in social dancing, like swing dancing.

c) Ski club, softball league, any activity.

The activity gives you a built-in reason to meet guys.

For example, in a swing dance class, guys and girls line up in two lines. The instructor demonstrates a simple movement. Then you try it with the guy in front of you. Instructor says step left, and then you try it again with a new guy. You can meet hundreds of guys, hold their hand for a few moments while learning the step, chat, smile, have a good time, and it doesn't mean anything, unless you want it to. Most people in the class do not bring partners, but sign up as singles. You have to rotate partners anyway.

If you really want to know about night clubs:

a) Proximity - you have to get within talking distance. So, get close some way, any way. If you have a choice, sit next to the interesting guy, or just a group of guys.

b) Be seen - take a trips to the bar, the restroom, around the room.

c) Be approachable - leave the safety of your girl group sometimes. They are safe but they also make you seem busy and unapproachable.

d) Dancing girls gets asked to dance. Get up and dance. Take your time around the edge of the dance floor, so you are available.

e) Eye contact - people look at what they like. Stare at him until he looks at you. If you meet eyes, relax your face and smile. A cute girl trick is to look at him, smile, look down for a split second, and look right back at him again. Another cute trick is to look at him while your play with your hair, your skirt, caress your leg with your fingertips, dangle your shoe from your toes, or move to the music, (choose one), etc.. Look at him with your face turned away at a slight angle, then when he looks, turn your face fully towards him. [The point of all of this eye contact is that most initial communication happens with the eyes. It is society's way to ask the question (are you interested ?) and get an answer, without being a kamikaze that dives into a situation blindly and awkwardly.]

f) It is polite to say Hi right away. So if someone sits next to you, say hi before the tension builds. Then it is not an approach, it is just courtesy. If you converse, then good. You can always say hi first, and give yourself time to evaluate if you want to engage in extended conversation.

g) Don't think of it as meeting Mr. Right. You are there to have fun. Mr. OK is good for fun. An active girl having fun is very attractive. Mr. Ok could turn out to be Mr. Right. Or, a Mr. Right will approach the happy, active girl.

h) And it never hurts to be the best that you can be. Not everyone can be a model or rich. But make an effort to improve yourself when you are not in the bar. It will show when you are in the bar and you want to look good.

i) Always be ready. You will spend the most of your life outside of bars, doing normal daily things. Keep some of the date-alert attitude wherever you go. You could meet him on the bus, at the grocery store, anywhere.

That's a few ideas. Have fun. Be safe.

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Just look at the guy u like and smile on him then go to ask him go outside sure u will get a good times...Good Luck...
well i am always impressed when a girl comes up to me. don't immediately ask the guy to buy you a drink though let him do that on his own. if all else fails try this pickup line, look at him like you recognize him and ask "do you have a girlfriend named **insert your name here*?" when they say no, reply "do you want one?" just cheesy enough to break the ice.