I am dating a man who still lives with his ex-girlfriend?

I have been dating this man for about a month now. He broke up with his girlfriend right after the holidays.

Problem is....they have a house together, that is in BOTH of their names.

He says things are completely over with her and that he sleeps in a separate room. He says he wants to start seriously dating me and see what happens with us.

When I ask him why he hasn't worked out a way to either sell the house or sell to each other, or even rent it out - he says everytime he tries to talk to her about, she is not willing to discuss.

Given this situation, I have no way to prove that they are really even broken up like he says they are. He has been very honest a/b the situation, which is why I have trusted him so far.

I just don't understand why he hasn't figured out way to move out or sell the house.

Do you think he is lying to me or being honest?

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Surely, you aren't that stupid? That's the oldest cop-out in the world. Married men usually use it. Tell him to give you a call after he has moved out.

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Dump him! they have to be sleeping together!
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Truth is stranger than fiction sometimes.

Actions also speak louder than words. Watch, don't listen.

But he's fresh on the market.... be careful.
That's a tough question. I know I was in the same situation where I had to live with my ex, even after we broke up. But you never know, he might just be telling you what you want to hear. Kinda like those guys who say they're going to get a divorce but never do.. pffft.

I'd say trust him, unless he gives you reasons to believe otherwise.
Has he had you over there? Have you met her? Does she know he's dating you?

If you've answered yes to all of the above than he is not still with her, he is just stuck in between a rock and a hard place. Give him alittle more time. While the situation is not ideal, it has only been one month.
i would leave him...you can't trust them in the same house. sorry,but good luck!
I dunno really...I'd definitely keep things at a nice slow pace though until you see what happens. Don't wanna go giving yer heart or yer body away and then have him be an as*s right?
I think he's jumping into another relationship way too soon. I'd be concerned that he will backslide and try to reconcile with her, especially when they are living together. I think you should tell him to call you once he's moved out of the house and don't have contact with him until that happens.
I'd feel very ackward if I were you... tell him you'll talk to his ex about moving out! That'll scare him if he's been lying to you
If they have a house together sounds like it was pretty serious. Careful that your not just a rebound
you really really need to talk to him about your insecurities.

no one on this answer site can give u an answer to fit ur specific need... becuz we obviously can't know all the details and feelings.

tell him you feel insecure about it and would like the situation to change. if he really doesn't want to lose you, he'll listen
no offense he could either be being honest or lieing, i know you knew that but maybe the girl, if u dont know, is a total ***** and wont stand for him to leave, i know hes the guy but that **** ahppens.

dump him if he is lieing in the end, sucks ***!
He's lying!Get rid of him NOW!

Ask him if you can stay at his...if they are not together it shouldn't be a problem....
I'm pretty sure he is being honest with you and if you cant get him to sell it or rent it or anything at all maybe you should talk to his ex girlfriend privatley and ask her
I would start going to his house to hang out. If he says no and won't give you a good reason, then dump him. If it's over, then it shouldn't be a problem. He can't keep living there and not expect to ever have you over.
End it now before you invest too much of your time, energy, heart and soul in this relationship
not a good sign.He might still be her boyfriend.he could cheat on you.i think you need to fix it huny.
Think about this long and hard.

He is living with his x

and NOT sleeping in the same be.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Can't he move in with you???? Maybe until they work something out?????? IDK
if you know what owning a house is like, its not easy. i think he is telling you the truth. think about it, if he broke up with his ex and they were still living in the same house, wouldn't the ex had called you or in any way have contacted you already to tell you to back off of your boyfriend.

a house under a name is not easy to run away from, you must understand that. selling a house is not easy either. but maybe he should take you inside and prove to you that he's really not sleeping with his ex. don't mention about going in his house early, mention it while you two are hanging out so he can't prepare anything. it maybe a smart idea to do that so you really know and you are seeing it with your own eyes. you gotta see it to believe girl.

be careful and don't trust men so easily, they can be jerks a lot of times. but trust your instincts.

good luck!
Trust is simply that.... To be with someone you should trust them without doubt; if you have doubt then maybe you should stop dating until he or she move out and make different living arrangements. If you do this, and he stays there, than you know where you stand with him. Bottom line, don't put up with excuses. When men really want to do something they will.
Lying. For one, If he had any respect, he wouldn't jump right into another relationship so fast, especially while he is still living with her. This isn't a good situation. Most likely he is lying and cheating on ths person. telling you what will safice for the time being. Is this the kind of guy you want, a guy that as soon as you break up, he is already dating and serious about someone else? I'm sure he has told you all the horrible things about her , how bad she was. This is what lyers do. If he respected anyone involved, he would be finding a way to move out, even if it is to a hotel until the house sells. Peple just don't breakup and not figure out what to do about a house they bought together. Also beings they bought a house together, how much did he respect her that he rushed right out and met you. In this situation, if you stay with him, then you deserve what ya get.