Dating after Divorce???

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now, he is going through a divorce! All that's left is for her to sign on the dotted line and it's done, they were married for 2 years~ they never lived together becasue there jobs are in different states.(crazy, I know) No children!!! But~ he is so stressed waiting for her to sign (myself as well). So, I don't want his stress to affect "us". What should I do to help?

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i'm not going to write this big long essay answer about if you really love him blah blah blah... i'm gonna give you hot and cold.

if you love him - support him, and help him through this.

if you don't really care about him that much - kick him to the curb.

hope i helped;;

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Find somebody else.
just support him. Its a tough time for him
Be there for him! THat's all you can do. :D
there is nothing that you can do. the whole situation really has nothing to do with you. yes, you are dating him, but you have nothing to do with what is happening between him and his ex. all you can do is wait. in the mean time i guess you can make sure that he knows that you are there for him if he ever needs anything. speaking as a person who is going through a divorce right now, do not get too attached to this guy. he isn't even divorced yet and more than likely you are a rebound.
i don't see that there is anything you can do about this.

She is not likely to be affected by your polite request to sign the papers. I suppose you could make sure that she received the papers. ( in fact, you could make sure that he initiated the divorce, that papers were served, etc.) no offense intended, but some guys lie, saying they are getting divorced, when they have done nothing about it.

and some guys lie, when they have never been married.
Don't help .... stay out of it ... These 2 loved each other once .. let them be responsible for their own lives. Guess you'll see his real colors now .... stress can do that!
Don't do anything, it is between him and his ex, don't pressure him, just be there if he needs you, ask him what he wants you to do, it will all be over soon!
Stop talking about it. What is the big deal? It is just a piece of paper, not a winning lotto ticket. Just stop obsessing over the past and concentrate on the future...
What is there to stress about%26gt;He should be rejoicing%26gt;sounds like he still cares for her%26gt;%26gt;He needs cool down time unless you want to here him whining about how bad it was%26gt; S%26amp;H
Be there to support him is the best you can do.
Do nothing apart from lend a supportive ear to him. Only he and his wife are involved in sorting out the divorce. If his stress levels are high, he probably has unresolved feelings for her. If this is the case, consider removing yourself from this bizarre love triangle as it sounds like he's chosen you as his rebound girl.
So you've actually laid eyes on the divorce papers? And the only step not completed is her signature?

Well, hang in there. Don't move in together yet... but yes, I think dating is okay at this stage. I'm sure it's tough for him to wait, but let him know you're there for him.

I THINK (and this may differ from state to state) that even if one party doesn't sign the papers, the other party can have the divorce ratified through the court after a period of time. Have him check with his lawyer on this.
all you can do is be there for him. And He's Not Divorced Yet as she hasn't signed the papers yet

You really have nothing to do with this there's not much you can do other than be there if he needs to talk.

But you Have to Stay out of this it's between them. Divorce is a stressful time.

Been there done that. All My Partner did was help if i needed to talk or had questions. But he just stayed out of the process.

You Can't Get involved here. You Have Nothing to do with the divorce process or do you

Depending on when you got involved with him

but as far as the papers go you can't do a thing
Its hard to be supportive when things are out of your control. The best thing is not add to his stress levels. Divorce is like a emotional death. It takes time to grieve and there is nothing worst than to deal with it and have additional pressures on a new relationship.
Keep the time with you completely separate form his divorce drama...that's all you can do.