Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Dating a seperated man?

I am dating a man that is currently seperated from his wife we have been living together for a while now but he is still in constant contact with his wife and has not mentioned anything about a divorce yet. Should I let the relationship go until that is done or should I just wait and see what happens it been over a year now and this issue is causing a big problem



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this is a serious situation that needs immediate attention. ask him ifwhen he is planning to get a divorce because you need to know about your future together. if he is still trying to work things out with her, then you are wasting your time with him. assuming that you would like to get married, you either need to get him to commit to you, or let you know you're not the one so that you can find someone else.



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sounds like he may still have feelings for her i would take a back step until u are sure.
It's causing a big problem because he is a married man. He is a cake eater. Having his cake and eating it to. Time to leave him and let him decide who he wants to be with.



I'll say again...HE'S MARRIED!
If you don't press the issue he will continue to have his cake and eat it too.
i know it's hard but just let him go n if he really wants to be with u he will come back. don't put urself through all the pain. there is a special person out there for u n he is not the one. don't give up hope n keep ur head held high.
Let it go, as long as he is married you are the 'other' woman. If they haven't even filled for divorce then there is a reason. You living with him is making it so he doesn't have to be an adult and make a choice. No matter how long he's been living apart from his wife, he is married until the day the paper work goes through. That makes you his adulteress mistress and not important enough to get the divorce.
give him an ultimatum.
Have a heart to heart talk with this man. If he refuses to divorce his wife then he obviously has hopes of getting back together with her. If that be the case, move on and build a life with someone who is not attached.
You need to talk with him before this gets any serious. Find out what his intentions are. Then give him some time to see if it happens. ( Your own personal time line, if it doesn't move on).

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