Sunday, December 6, 2009

High School Dating?

I am a junior in high school and i want to start dating.



I have a huge crush on this one girl in my class. I talk to her every class, about homework, sports, life, etc. We also text from time to time, but not as much as either of us would like, since her texts aren't free. I've mentioned to her before that it would be fun if we would hang out some time and she agreed, saying that yes it would be fun. Shes a pretty sporty girl, playing soccer in the fall, then basketball in the winter.



I am a 16 year old guy who likes to chill with my friends, party, and play rugby. Rugby season is starting in a week for me, which is good, for i don't have a sport in fall or winter - i just go to the gym.



What are some good ideas for 1st dates/ways to ask her out?



i was thinking maybe a movie then dinner, but im really not sure. The most important thing for me is to have fun, and to make sure that she doesn't feel awkward. I would really just like to spend some time with her.



Thanks in advance!



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Do you have a professional or semi-pro soccer team in your city? If so, get tickets. Or go to a college soccer game with her. Cook her dinner at your house? Have a picnic. Do something athletic like indoor rock climbing. Go swimming. Do something different. Dinner and movie is the same-old, same-old. Do something which you think she will enjoy. She will jump on this and asking her out won't be so nerve wracking.



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Just ask her to a place like the movies, or meet her for a coffee somewhere.
It sounds like you're on the right track.



I wouldn't recommend texting, though.
idk
do w/e you like or thingk you would have fun doing than ask her what she thinks. she'll prolly agree. if she wants to do somethign else do w/e she wants. to hlpe things from getting awkward just keep the conversation flowing but dont ramble. just be cool be yourself and relax. if she likes you enough to hang out everythign should be fine.
hang out with a group of people. that way you can spend time with her, but you have other people to turn to if things get awkward. don't try to force anything, just be friends for now. when things start getting more serious between you two, then go for the dinner/movie date. it might put too much pressure on her right now. good luck!

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