Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Dating for two weeks...?

ive been dating this guy for two weeks and he already said the "L" word. i really like him, and can see myself having a possible future with him but i believe that love is a VERy strong word and should NOT be spoken lightly. i told him "easy on the "love you" until we get more serious" so either he didnt take a hint or he thought i was playing around.



what to do...



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Love is a strong word. You just can tell him thank you , like on the movie "liar,liar" when the girl was on the plane.



that's all you can do %26amp; keep telling him you're not ready for a serious relationship. it might be good if you dont date , if you dont see having a serious relatinship with this guy. it's just going to hurt someone.



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Well, love knows no time limits, but I agree, that's way too soon. Maybe he's for real, but I think he's just caught up in all the emotion.
serious doesnt have a time limit for some people. he may think you are serious. or if you are younger he may not know what it really means yet. just because he said it doesnt mean you have to. if it bothers you then tell him
you just have to tell him what you said here.



say that it 1. makes you feel uncomfortable or 2. that you should wait until you have more of a stable relationship or 3. tell him that you believe that is an extremel powerful word that should not be uses lightely and that you should wait until your deeper in r finaly 4. all of the above
I would really watch out if I were you...I know how you feel about havin people say that to you when you aren't really that involved yet, its happened to me a few times. Keep in mind that guys don't really like to say that in the first place, let alone really early, and definitely not before the girl does if we can help it. He's either up to something or he's overly emotional, which is really lame.
Well, you did the right thing in telling him to take it easy. He may just be really into you but really not "in love" yet! Also know that what one person thinks about using the "l-word" may be a different from what another person thinks. I think the point he's trying to make here is that he really likes you a lot and that he sees a lot of potential in your relationship. That's a good thing!



Just to be on the safe side, sit down and talk to him. Let him know that you like him a lot and you see a lot of potential in your relationship... but let him know that you're not "in love" yet. Be sure to follow that statement up by saying that he could possibly be someone you'll fall in love with. As long as he knows where your relationship stands, it's all good.



I think he just can't find any other word to explain how he feels about you. When my fiance and I started dating, I had the urge to say "I love you," but we had only been talking for like 3 days. Instead I said something like, "Ok! I love you... in a light way." We always laugh when we think about that. :)
we tend to lie and we sometimes it makes you girls feel that we are really into the relationship.... so dont worry about it... he might mean it one day ;)
I'm guessing your still in High School, so you will hear that word used a lot more loosely in that setting. If you want to stay with him, talk to him about your beliefs in the word. Communication is key for relationships to work. If he is mature, he will be understanding. If he isn't well maybe he isn't for you.



Most people at this age don't know what love really is.



Some questions to pose towards him is : Do you really love me? How do you know what love is? How do you know you love this soon in a relationship?
I totally agree with you.

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